Signs of a Habitual Cheater? Am I Dealing with a Habitual Cheater?

by Sarai
(Cali)

I read the page on dealing with a habitual cheater and as I read on, I began to feel the worse feeling in my stomach.

I caught my husband cheating twice and how I caught him was totally accidentally. Both times he claimed it was while he was drunk and he really didn't know what he was doing. Yea, he blamed it on the alcohol.

I chose to forgive because I do love him and he does treat me very good (besides the cheating of course!).

As I was reading the things a habitual cheater may do and say, a picture of my husband came to my head. I heard those very same words. I do not know if I am married to a habitual cheater or someone that messed up twice.

I have not physically caught him again, but it is just that his actions seem very suspicious at times. There is also plenty of times where he just doesn't answer his phone when I call. But when I am with him, he always has his phone in his hand, and always checking it.

Am I dealing with a habitual cheater? I am not the person that will go to world's end to bust someone cheating. The two times I did it was because I stumbled upon it.

I know some will criticize me already for staying with him anyways, but It was something that I thought through, prayed upon it, and came to my conclusion. I would only like to hear from those that are respectful in their answer. I don't mind honesty, but please only answer if you are going to be respectful.